Go to the color swatch display area of your paint store or hardware store & look through colors & color ranges, & note what you gravitate towards & that pleases you the most. You may have already been collecting pictures of the things you love for some time – what patterns have emerged for you? What story about you are your pictures & preferences showing & telling you?
All you need to do is keep thinning things out – keep at it. Home Decorating & creating the Home of your dreams is definitely a work-in-progress.